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I’ll keep it real. I’ve rushed a couple of times and here’s what I have to say. The rushing process itself is okay. It’s a lot of forced conversation and to be quite fair, these forced conversations won’t do you any good unless you have the perfect 4.0 GPA, networking connections, and you know girls in the sorority and even then it’s iffy. They maybe take on 1-2 “charity” cases a year so that they can have girls that say “oh I did nothing before DOK and it's changed my life.” But even so, it’s all about what you can bring to the table and what others can extort out of you opportunity wise. The average GPA is a 3.7, so if you’ve had life circumstances that have kept you down or just don’t have that as high GPA, prepare to not fit in. At the end of the day, it’s an academic sorority, not PHA. They aren’t as expensive and theoretically more “laid back” (but I’ve heard it’s a lot of work once you get in and if you don’t have the time you’re better off not doing it, which is why they got a newish rule of not being allowed to be in social sororities if you are in DOK). They conduct themselves like an exclusive club more than anything else, taking in only approx. 20 girls semester when 100+ rush. But if you can get in, more power to you. I found my “sorority family” somewhere else that’s so much more of a better fit for me. So don’t get discouraged if you don’t get in. The lesson for me was trying to fit in with a group of girls I just didn’t fit in with, and while it hurt each time I didn’t get that golden ticket bid into something I thought would change my life for the better, looking back I’m a not happier for it. Overall rating: 4.5/10, simply because of the exclusiveness of it, the hard work for no payoff trying to get in, and for the unwritten requirements you have to have simply to look good to them.