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I don't get how saying a chapter is your top choice, directly to them at Pref, would be a bad look. If you were invited to Pref, they want you. They may not be able to give a bid to everyone who comes to Pref, but they don't invite people to Pref who they cannot see as sisters. At that point, it's a safe bet that they will be thrilled if you tell them that they have made you feel at home, or it would make you so happy to be part of their sisterhood, or that you feel in your heart that they are where you belong. However you say it, it cannot hurt you to leave without question that you would be glad to accept a bid from them, whether you say "you are my top choice" or some other way of expressing it. Good luck & remember that at the end of the day, having a choice is great - but any of the choices at NYU can lead to meaningful sisterhood.