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The one thing that I think Panhel needs to emphasize more is that PNMs have way less of say in rush than the houses. Yes, some PNMs get lucky and go through rush basically hand picking which ones they go back to- but at the end of the day, they get to choose because all of those houses wanted them first. Houses come up with lists of who they want back. They don't have to rank like PNMs do, they just list who they want and don't (until after preference round). Even if you have a great rush, you will to some extent be at the mercy of the system. You will (almost definitely) get cut from one house you like. It's not because there is anything wrong with you. They have to make a certain percentage cuts and they had other girls they thought fit in with their sorority better. As far as asking what 3 houses girls went to for pref, I promise that's borderline useless information. It makes sense for individual girls (like i can look at my friends and understand why they all went to the three they went to) but it's not standard across the board. Pref round is really emotional because it's basically the sorority trying to get you to choose them-- some advice i can give you for pref is to MAKE SURE THEY KNOW YOU ARE INTERESTED. Don't act like you are conflicted between two houses, if you want to be their sister, act like it.