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Agree

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I totally agree with you. There's nothing mutual about it when PNMs aren't even given the courtesy of an in person conversation at all of the houses. Open house rounds need to be in person. If it takes two days, so be it. I also think there needs to be more weight given to how the PNMs rank the houses, or they need to stop calling it "mutual selection." Personally, I think the first cuts should be made by PNMs and PNMs only. Sororities should not be able to cut anyone until Sisterhood round. So, for Open House rounds and Philanthropy rounds, the PNMs would make the cuts and if they do not choose to return to a house, then it's not on their schedule anymore (and they're not penalized for "not maximizing their options" - aka allowing themselves to be used as filler for the houses no one chose.) For Sisterhood and Pref Night, the houses would make the cuts. I think this would be much more "mutual selection" and would ensure that no PNM ends up having to choose between joining a house she has consistently ranked last and knows is not a fit or not going Greek at all. This will never happen because people would be up in arms about how PNMs need to have an open mind and give everyone a chance instead of thinking they're too good for certain chapters without getting to know them... Yet these same people will vehemently defend chapters cutting PNMs for superficial reasons without getting to know them.