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Poster Name:
Honestly

Poster Message:
You (and other PNMs) are under the mistaken belief that you make the ultimate decision who to join during rush. Make no mistake, in the end it is the chapters who have final say. And it is the chapters who have a better sense of who will fit into their chapter than you. All this BS about knowing reps, and "knowing who you want," and believing you can you somehow work the system for the bid you want is false and is going to lead to a bunch of heartache. You don't know how it really works (RFM, recruitment) because you have not been on the other side yet, but I hate to think that some poor PNM is going to read your "advice" and end up getting hurt. You were lucky to get a bid from any Clemson sorority, and if you followed your advice, you'd be a GDI right now. Any PMNs should go in with an open mind, be themselves (and cater to some make-believe reputation they read on here), and trust the process. Consider yourself fortunate if you get a bid and give yourself time to form relationships in your new group. BTW, I feel sorry for your sorority because you do not appreciate the value of being in any Greek organization or specifically the value of a group of women who took a chance and chose you over other PNMs.