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Poster Name:
Beenthere

Poster Message:
The process is usually not fair. Trust me, I have been there. It is so competitive that unless you have the connections (like being a legacy for example) you will be dropped from most houses right away. The average rusher who does not have connections is at a huge disadvantage, even if they are genuine and amazing people. So do not let that get to you, plenty of girls who have rushed have the same feelings I promise you. My advice for you at this time is to keep an open mind, you may change your feelings once you get to really know the chapter. If you do this and still do not feel at home, drop. Do not settle, you deserve to be in a place that you feel comfortable.