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I'm so, so sorry things didn't go your way. However, you can find sisterhood in a lot of things on campus that don't necessarily have to be a sorority. Also, if you want a personal anecdote about joining a sorority you don't click with - I joined a sorority last year that I just didn't vibe with whatsoever. I cried my eyes out during rush about some of my cuts, and I was shocked that this sorority took me whereas the "lower-tier" sorority I originally wanted cut me. However, I also really wanted to be a part of a sisterhood, any sisterhood, and I just joined. I'm not going to lie, at the beginning it was pretty uncomfortable and I felt like it was so far from the type of sorority I wanted. But I speak genuinely when I say that over the course of a year I found some of my best friends in my Chapter. I cannot imagine life at this school without my lineage and I found a bunch of girls in my pledge class I absolutely adore. At the end of bid night this year, I genuinely felt so loved being surrounded by my sisters it's crazy, and I laughed at myself one year ago who thought she wouldn't find a home in this Chapter. Of course, this is not everyone's experience, but if you are considering COB I wanted to share, because not joining a sorority last year for me would've been a giant mistake regardless of which one it was