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Well, I would hope if the guy in this scenario agreed to date me again and even let me go through a second date that he wouldn’t automatically cut me based on assumptions. If the sororities are going to act this petty, they shouldnt even let people rush again. But, wait! That’s not allowed. Every girl per national standards is allowed to rush the next year. Moreover, at other schools, rerushing successfully definitely isn’t as impossible as it seems to be here. But this is beyond the point...let me continue: Most of the spots are predetermined before rush anyway. Why go on a date originally if you know that you’re definitely taking the other girl? The dating metaphor doesn’t successfully extend to this situation because you’d reject her originally, save her time, and NOT break the hearts of tons of girls by leading them on like our rush process does. The sororities should be more transparent about their standards. Also, if someone rejected me once based on a five minute conversation and I’m going on a date with another different person the next year (aka, a different girl in the sorority), I would argue that the first date shouldn’t be held against you. You really aren’t ever “dating the same person again.” This methodology implies that every girl in the sorority has the same exact opinions. Even if a girl didn’t like you one year, that 100% does not mean the people you talk to this year also will not like you. However, the literally holds it against you for eternity if you have one unlucky date out of many. And maybe it wasn’t even unlucky. Maybe you just didn’t have the connections and there was no way to change their mind once you walked in.