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Poster Name:
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Poster Message:
Sorry but you’re incorrect, the vast majority of women who gets bids are first years with zero connections who just clicked with the sisters - I’m a senior, trust me. If you didn’t get a bid, it means they didn’t click with you the same way they liked other first years. I know it’s difficult to accept that you weren’t a fit, but this sounds like what happened. Having friends in a sorority means nothing. I have friends in every sorority, and even though I love them and appreciate their organizations, I know I probably wouldn’t be a fit there and vice versa. Lastly, bringing up the names of orgs is pretty classless and just kind of a bad look in general. They’ll easily be able to figure out who you are. The fact that you even bring up rank shows that it is important to you. There were two organizations that liked you and thought you were a fit, and it seems like you didn’t give them a fair chance. Def consider going through recruitment again, but this time try to think about where you’d actually fit. I’m sorry this is harsh, but it’s frustrating to every year see women convince themselves that they were dropped as a mistake, when it’s reality it’s rarely if ever a mistake.