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Because...please pay attention to this...if that happens it's not necessarily because you weren't wanted. I know it seems like that from the pnm perspective, but that's not how the recruitment process works. Sororities are NOT looking for who they don't want or picking out the girls to drop, they are far more focused on finding the positive and looking for their future sisters. There are plenty of girls every year that a chapter would want to have back if they were allowed more, but every house has an absolute firm number they can invite back to the next round. These numbers are given to them by panhellenic and each house's limit is different based on their chapter recruiting history over the past 4 or 5 years. These numbers determine everything. The chapter has discussions and assessments of the pnm's each day and their recruitment team takes it from there. Only the recruitment team sees the chapter results and knows the exact data, which they use to create a ranked list to submit to panhellenic. The cutoff line determines the pnm's that get invited back. If you didn't make the cutoff it doesn't mean the actives didn't like you or found you lacking somehow or that they wouldn't want to be your friend. Actives get emotional when girls they like don't come back, and they don't know if the pnm chose different or there were too many other pnm's that the chapter as a whole put higher. It's not personal, it's a numbers game. That's why girls who were dropped completely can rebound and get a bid.