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I want to add, it's totally okay to express your feelings at the time you're feeling them. That's what the OP did and it's what I'm doing now. And every year a lot of girls act on their disappointment and drop, and then join a sorority with a COB, or spring rush, or as an upperclassman. And if that is something any girl who dropped wants, please know I still want you to join! whether it's my sorority or not, every member welcomes all new members! None of the feelings I expressed means I'll feel any differently about a girl joining later. Not that it should any way change someone's feelings about joining, but I wanted to make that clear before anyone accused me of not being supportive of girls who dropped joining later. And I also have plenty of friends who dropped rush too. I understand there are lots of factors and my disappointment right now isn't some forever judgement on people. But I hope anyone reading does try to understand my POV.