If deemed necessary, reported comments will be removed within 7 - 10 days but usually sooner. Please submit this report ONLY if you STRONGLY believe this needs to be removed. Multiple illegitimate reports slow down the administrative process of removing the actual and more seriously unfavorable content.

Poster Name:
Curious :/

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />From one heartbroken PNM to another ❤️<br /><br /> Poster Message:
So here we are heartbroken and discouraged. We can NOT judge our self-worth off 2 - :30 minute conversations and for some house(s) zero conversations. SERIOUSLY there are 500 girls in each house, the retention is higher in the “desired” houses so they take less PNMs. If 500 girls know at least 1 girl, do the math our odds are not great :(. It’s NOT YOU, this does not mean we’re not pretty enough, smart enough, rich enough, qualified enough or fashionable enough etc etc it literally means we knew NO ONE (or not enough) girls to keep us on their list. And yeah there’s a small % that gets into the “desired” houses with 0 connections but remember there’s 2,274 PNMs, what are our chances? Slim to none! Even legacies are dropped to make room for member’s friends. Other Universities (besides other big SEC schools like Ole Miss with 2,000+ PNMs and 11 houses) do not go through these deep cuts. They will NEVER understand the courage it takes to take on the UARK rush process. I read a post that said rush is a competition. Guess what? It may be but it’s a competition where several girls have a head start and you know what, that’s life and yeah IT SUCKS but we can either choose to move forward with grace & a smile or we can allow them to continue to hold us back and get further ahead. So as PNMs that are the 1/2 being convinced to stick it out, DECIDE FOR YOURSELF, it’s your $4,000. You can; 1. Give your last house or houses a fair shot 2. Drop and find friends elsewhere (where are the UARK non-greek women’s organizations???) 3. Build those connections needed for the house you liked & do COB (don’t sign your bid card) 4. If you want a certain house (legacies etc) transfer to a smaller University or one with less PNMs and more houses But whatever you do remember the 1st step to becoming a leader is to look yourself in the mirror and LOVE YOURSELF for who you are!💕 We all want to be appreciated but are so slow to appreciate others. So PLEASE don’t judge yourself or the girls in the non-desired houses based on 2 - :30 minute conversations. Good luck ladies! As for me I’m giving my last 2 houses a fair shot. REMEMBER we are ALL CAPABLE of making an impact, even without a head start!