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<strong>Subject:</strong><br />for the pnms! <br /><br /> Poster Message:
1. I just wanted to let y'all know, sorority recruitment is not the end all be all of life's existence. There is so much more to the college experience and while being in a sisterhood is amazing, it is not necessary to be in one to enjoy your time at arkansas. With that being said, do not let the way your recruitment goes define you. You are loved, valued, and worthy, regardless of the house that you get a bid from. 2. As somebody who was once a pnm, rush goes differently for everyone. I'm not going to lie, it was hard for me to see people I know have a "perfect" rush, while I was getting dropped by the houses I wanted. But please do not be discouraged by how your week starts. Because first round cuts are usually the worst. I could not be happier with where I ended up, even though I had days where I was upset with my party list. Give EVERY house a chance. And please, please, do not compare yourself with other girls that are rushing. I struggled with this a lot during the week and it really tore me down. Every girl rushing has her own amazing qualities, but that doesn't take away from the fact that you are amazing too! 3. Be real. Seriously. Nothing good comes from pretending to be someone you are not. We as members can usually tell when somebody is putting up a front, and that is the last thing we want! We want you to be yourself. Show us how fun you are, what you are deeply passionate about, and all the little quirks you have. You are way more than your resume, and we want you to be candid with us. The best conversations I had during rush were about the most random things, but it really showed me who was actually interested in me, beyond the surface level. 4. Take the rankings on here with a grain of salt. Every single person has different opinions on where each house stands, but don't let that affect you. To be completely honest, ranks literally don't even matter on campus. And if someone is rude or judges you based off the house you are in, that shows you EXACTLY what type of person they are. Genuine friends and people could not care less about the letters you will wear. There will be girls that act like they are better than others because of the house they are in, but let their actions reflect on who they are, and not on their whole sorority. 5. Drop any questions you have! RUSH STARTS IN 18 DAYS!!! GET EXCITED :)))