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This is a good time to point out something: Rush is emotional for pnm's and the actives. When a pnm gets dropped from a house she loved, she is crushed and sometimes cries. She doesn't know what happened to get dropped. I guarantee you, the same thing is happening in a sorority when favorite girls don't come back; it hurts and we cry, and we don't know if they didn't get the chapter vote or they didn't rank us high enough. It's a numbers game, and we have to make the cuts that we are told to make, and it's a chapter decision as a whole. Just because you didn't get invited back doesn't mean that you were dismissed, or not liked, or not good enough, or that we don't want to be your friend.