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Poster Name:
reality check

Poster Message:
It doesn’t always work out. What if you feel like the house that wants you is not the right fit because you didn’t hit it off with some of the girls or didn’t feel like you had much in common? A faked or forced fit usually isn’t a good fit. And it is not fair to another girl who might really want that spot. If girls have no connections, there is a good chance they don’t land anywhere. So does that mean they aren’t meant for Greek life? It’s pretty hard to explain why a girl who has a lot going for her and really wants to be part of a sisterhood cannot find a fit anywhere. Sororities like to boast that they are diverse, but the winning formula is the same- instate and/or with sorority connections. Where’s the diversity in that? I personally love my house and my experience, and feel lucky we found each other. But I am not the only active who hates the week of anxiety and the crushing disappointment that too many girls feel. The system is flawed, and I think we owe it to the PNMs to be honest about it. The system only works for some girls. And some other girls who are just as worthy but without connections get left out.