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I think that we put an unrealistic pressure on feeling a perfect fit in recruitment week and at Pref. A lot of girls go into Pref unsure, and a lot don't feel comfortable right away and THAT IS OK. I got my second choice and was devastated, but gave them a shot, and it was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. When I was crying on the phone to my mom about my favorite who cut me, she reminded me that I knew nothing bout them a week ago, and to go with the women who liked me and wanted to get to know me. I got to know girls in my Pledge Class and really felt super comfortable the next year. It is like any relationship....it takes time! Best of luck to you in whatever you decide!