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I had the same thing happen to me last year. I had two choices left-one I LOVED and one I did not. I talked to them and gave them a shot at pref, but I knew that I would not be happy there. I decided to put both down (someone told me that it may increase your chances of getting what you want but do not ask me to explain it b/c I didn't understand it). However, I knew that if I didn't get my first choice, I would drop out. You are the one joining the sorority. You are the one who has to live your life. This is your decision. Don't feel guilty about it or let someone shame you or say you should be grateful for what you get b/c some people got dropped. I told my first choice that I loved them, asked them lots of questions, and let them know that I really wanted them. It worked out and I got my first choice. Best of luck to you! This is hard. I hope it all works out!!