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Poster Name:
Meee

Poster Message:
Going in I had my heart stuck on being a tri delt or pi phi, only problem was that my sister was in a chapter on campus already. I really wanted to find my own house that liked me for me, and not because my sister was already in it. I had really great conversations with all the houses, but ultimately got cut by 8 houses. I was cut by pi phi and tri delt in the mix. I was left with one house I really did not see myself in, one house I felt like I was going to be forced into and one I really liked going into philanthropy round. After philanthropy round, I started to really love the chapter my sister was in and I fell in love with the one I “liked” before. With my luck I got cut by the one I fell in love with and then had two houses remaining. At this point I knew I was going to bid the sorority my sister was in, because I really didn’t see myself in the other sorority. I cried that night because I wanted to be my own person and not predecessor. This wasn’t the only time I cried lol... I cried almost every night. I remember getting a call from my gamma chi one morning telling me not to come into the meeting or get dressed because I had no parties that day. Same thing happened the next day... and it wasn’t until the second day of philanthropy that I was allowed to come back in. It left me a lot of time to think about “what was wrong with me”. I had 200+ community service, 3.9 gpa, decent ACT, leaders of multiple clubs and teams etc. I knew when I opened that card on bid day it was going to be my sisters sorority, and it was. It took me about a month to “get over myself” and really get engulfed within it all. I slowly started to realize that I actually really, really REALLY loved where I was at. It took me joining a few committees, going to dedication meetings etc. to realize that all sororities are really similar and that I couldn’t be that hard on myself. While I still am referred to “[insert sisters name here] sister” sometimes and it’s annoying, I have found my own people and have been trying to build my own name. I’ve had so much fun with where I’m at, and while recruitment for me was kinda boo boo and scary, it all worked out in the end. Ps. Being a legacy stinks😂