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Recs

Poster Message:
AXO, Phi Mu, ADPi, and AOPi all allow recs from collegiate members who attend a different college than where a PNM is rushing, so if you have friends at other schools in these sororities or THEY have friends or relatives in them, you can ask these girls for help. And guys know sorority women too! ADPi must have a rec on you to offer a bid; if they LOVE you and want you at their pref they will have to get an alum to write a rec on you. BUT, here's the thing about not having a rec at every sorority: when so many girls do have their recs and it comes down to choosing among a bunch of girls they really like but cuts have to be made, sometimes the only tie breaker is having a rec. It is not a bad thing to not have one, it's just not giving yourself every advantage you can get. Hope this helps.