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Poster Name:
honestly

Poster Message:
seriously doubt you were led on by a chapter. recruitment is hard for actives too. if each member has one pnm they have to have that is already 300 girls. most actives have several girls they want. this doesn't include chapter legacies. during the week a lot can change. there may be a pnm who wasn't on anyone's radar but makes a great impression. someone's favorite may come across as awkward or rude. you may have been wanted but just not high enough on the bid list. actives don't know if their favs made it until bid day. we cry too when our friends aren't on the list. please don't take it personal. trust the system that you will end up where you belong. if you think you are too good for the houses that did want you then maybe you need to change your attitude.