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Well my take on this is a little bit late for anyone going through panhel recruitment but as someone who went to a few ix events back in my day before deciding its not for me, its kind of like this: do you remember in middle school when to be cool you had to be all like "I dont like pink! I'm not into make up!! I'm not like those other girls!!" Well, IX is basically that-- "We're not like other sororities, we're cool and low key" and for some people that might be appealing. But they ARE fundamentally just like other sororities, really. So it kind of just felt like a superiority complex where you needed to act 'cool' and couldn't take pham stack photos because that is 'uncool' and 'basic' (meanwhile they take pham photos all the same, just not in the 'sorority stack' pose!) IDK it just felt weird to try to SO hard to act like you're not a sorority and you're somehow different and better because you dont do the 'typical sorority' stuff, when in fact you ARE in a sorority! Like I want to be enthusiastically engaged with the group I join, and it felt like I needed to affect an aloof air to meet the aesthetic of IX and that just wasn't it for me