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Nope, also not true. Recruitment rules say all girls have to attend every event they are invited to (so for the first round, they have to talk to each sorority), even if they are not interested in ending up in that sorority. I have heard manyyyyy cases of girls actively not engaging in conversation so they can quickly get dropped by a sorority. For the most part people are socially aware, so we can tell if someone doesn't want to be there vs they are just shy. Sisters (in all five sororities) that could tell I was a little shy were happy to keep the conversation going and make me feel more comfortable, since we've all been in that position of being the nervous PNM. I also agree that the overall system is pretty stupid, since it is pretty hard to get to really know a girl in one round (versus frats with their less-regulated events), but that's just the way it is. The sisters are looking for people with personalities, interests, and character that will mesh the best with the overall pledge class and chapter. Being introverted or a little shy does not disqualify you, I can say that from my experience. Not making an effort to talk to the sister and engage in conversation may hurt you. Yes, it is a bit of a gamble but for the most part the system works. I didn't know any of the girls in my PC save for one or two dorm neighbors and you get to know them after reveal, after which you can really bond with them and get to know each other.