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I agree with “Hmmm” poster. Try again! Besides, there is no such thing as hopelessly unattractive girl! Have you ever considered experimenting with makeup? I know there is a type of girls who refuse wearing makeup, thinking that it puts them above those who do. They think that they embrace their natural beauty or whatever... But appearance is like gardening— if you do not trim and nourish a rose, it will not look good. There is a lot you can do if you want to look better— experiment with your hair color, go to the mall and schedule a makeup tutorial session.There are plenty of online tutorials. Experiment! Do not wear basic sweats or clothes that shows how little you care about your appearance. Don’t give up! If you are overweight it doesn’t matter! I have seen heavy girls in top sororities. You should learn to feel comfortable with who you are and be sweet and humble. Yes humble, because in any social group there is an unofficial hierarchy based on seniority and social roles. If you thought they were rude, it is possible that they did not see you as someone who really wants to be their sister. It is possible that your insecurity made you close your “shell” and it was a turn off for some of the girls. Try again next year, meanwhile, work on yourself. You may find the rejection to be a stimulus for your own personal growth. If you read J.K. Rowling Harvard commencement speech, one of her messages is that rejection can be an engine for the future success!