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I am sorry some women were rude to you. I hope some women were nice to you and you seriously considered those sororities. All sororities have guidelines that push them to value the whole woman: grades, activities, looks, values, friendliness/conversation skills, and interest/disinterest. If you look at the pledge class pictures, sure there are lots of pretty girls, but each house also has average looking girls as well. Unfortunately, the recruitment process requires each chapter to pick a few new members from hundreds of women who sign up, based on the little info they have about you and the short conversations they have with you. It is hard to repeatedly have authentic conversations with strangers if short time spans. If you or the sorority member are not artful or simply energetic enough to maintain continuous spontaneous conversations, then the interaction can seem and feel superficial, even if you both sincerely want to connect. Consider going through recruitment as a sophomore. If you are involved in campus organizations, maintained good grades, and socially connected with other women on campus, you will probably have a much different experience going through recruitment even if your looks are the same.