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Conflicted

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />deciding to stay or leave-advice?<br /><br /> Poster Message:
So when I joined my organization awhile back, it seemed really welcoming-at first. I joined because I love my chapter values. Now over the last year or so, I've really been wondering about why I'm still active. I want to be a good person of the chapter, but things aren't what I originally thought they were. Everyone seems really shallow and only cares about winning, insta likes, and parties. Nobody seems to really care for one another. Those values of our chapter that I love so much are not being fulfilled in my eyes. I'm finding it hard to fit in with this chapter because I'm so shy, and I'm more of an introvert. Yeah parties are fun but I wanted more. People aren't welcoming or inclusive even when I try to make it to all events. I just can't seem to find that connection that I should with my organization. I've been getting involved in a bunch of committees and positions inside my chapter, along with outside clubs just to be able to branch out more and be more involved, and I'm really hoping that my doubts go away so that I can get closer to people and find a connection with my organization, but all that is happening is me being disappointed and overwhelmed. I don't want to disaffiliate because I have such high hopes for my chapter, and so many people expecting me to make it through. I know that these connections will help me in the future and later in life, but I'm starting to wonder if this is true. I feel like I can't talk to anyone about it.