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There is no average pnm. Each girl has a different combo of assets and liabilities. Grades, reputation, looks, connections, recs, activities, community service, leadership, talents, etc. You never know what a house is looking for. Do they need singers and dancers? Do they need to bolster their gpa? etc. The fact that your daughter isn't high enough on the list to get an invitation to the next round doesn't mean they didn't like her. It just means she wasn't a fit for what they needed.