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You want honesty then let me bring you back to where I was when I was a pnm: The week waiting to hear back SUCKED. I was anxious and didn't want to focus on school. So when I got back to rush friday I got my list and I cried. Not because I didn't like my list, but because waiting a week and then being dropped by one of my favorite chapters was just a lot of stress and caused me some emotion. Which is totally fine!! (Honestly the way UD does recruitment is awful) but once I got my emotions out i took a deep breath and reminded myself the WHY like why did I even bother entering recruitment. Which I gaurentee like the rest of you (freshman/ sophomores or transfers) it's because you want a group who will support you and make memories with. Which I promise you, if you decide to continue on, you will get. The next step is which chapter makes you feel important and make you feel that you'll be successful whether that be leadership positions (which is more likely to happen in a smaller chapter), or service opportunities (a couple chapters have their OWN charity and it's hands on), or maybe it's you just want some genuine sisters who will be there to do everything like going out or staying up til 2 am at the lib. I remember being in one chapters room and I wanted to be liked so bad I acted differently than myself...n I realized I didn't want to fake who I was for four years. Just think about it- bc these chapters already see you're true potentially. Time for you to see it yourself