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Poster Name:
upperclassman

Poster Message:
i just wanna say - i know it's hard seeing other girls go back to the max number of chapters when you were invited to fewer (i've been there). i think this is one of the things that they could prepare pnms for more because i don't think people realize that most people do not get invited to the max # or close. like, the average number of chapters for philanthropy my year was closer to 4-5 than 7-8. yes there are girls going to more chapters than that, but ppl with a full schedule every day are definitely the minority. pnms - don't feel too bad about getting fewer or compare yourself to other people. if u have any chapters back that means they saw something in u that they liked. focus on the chapters u may still end up in and figuring out if u could see a place for yourself there. you can get invited back to 5 on philanthropy and not get cut again all recruitment, you never know. just like focus on the chapters that invited you back, not on the ones other people may still have