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Disagree. She didn't let people down. People let themselves down. She was honest. The problem remains that some PNMs get their heart set on specific sororities for the wrong reasons. Rush is mutual selection, even at the most competitive sororities. Ask Theta. However, the most competitive sororities tend to rush PNMs they know. It's not personal. It's human nature. You might know them from before Vandy or get to know them during the fall. You might get swept up in a connected group of friends. The most competitive sororities tend to fill with similarly outgoing girls because again familiarity. Some PNMs try hard or have a second chance at what eluded them in hs, some just fit in easily. Many other PNMs don't care about all of this and do exactly what Secret Sister advises. Seriously, be yourself and try to make connections with girls you genuinely like. If you end up with an unexpected bid, get over yourself and give it a chance. The girls make the sorority, not the opposite. If it still doesn't feel right, then drop before initiation and try again with more knowledge from the experience and an open mind. Don't take it so seriously that it impacts your experience. And don't listen to sadly insecure people. They don't represent the majority in any sorority.