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It's also on everyone who perpetuates ranking their fellow sisters. Ironic some march for women then rank each other. Fortunately, it's not representative of most at Vandy. PNMs--What is on you is whether you allow anon posts to influence your decisions instead of actually seeing the process through for yourself. You can always drop before initiation and re-rush, but should at least give it a chance. You might discover for yourself what is true and untrue. Perhaps if rush were in the fall, you lived in sorority houses and had strict fraternity mixing, then your letters might affect your actual social experience more. However that's not the case at Vandy. Most girls form solid friendships and groups in the fall that don't just change because of letters. You still live together and socialize together for the most part. Even independent girls can have a great social experience at Vandy. Your letters are not labels and they don't define you as much as you define your letters. Also, although it's mostly a numbers game, it's not strictly a numbers game. Quota, mutual selection, computer algorithm and human frailty all play a role. It's not always fair but it's also not intentionally unfair and it's not personal. @Secret Sister has given some really good insight and advice, especially about being open minded. Some houses are more competitive then others, not better. Don't confuse the two and don't listen to those that do.