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If i was to be honest

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Yes I would choose the same sorority because, as cliche as it sounds, it was the place where I was most comfortable with the conversations and where I felt i could genuinely be myself. I could change anything about rush, I would want to be more genuine everywhere because, at some houses, I felt like I was trying to make myself seem like someone they would want, and I tried to conform to what I thought they wanted me to be. I wish that I had just let go of the fear of their expectations and just talked as myself and not been as focused on trying to sound like what I believed they wanted. At least that way, I could truly get an understanding as to whether or not the house was for me. Though the cuts may have felt more personal then, I would at least know that if they did not see me as a fit for their organization, and, in all honesty, they know best because they know what they are looking for. If I could do it again, I would just be more fully myself, though I have no doubt that I would have still ended up in my house because I really do belong there and I love the people in it, even more now that I've had time to get to know them.