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Poster Name:
Secret Sister

Poster Message:
Unless PNM's intimately know the mechanics behind rush (how the computer actually ranks, cuts, houses talking to each other, etc.), it is very hard to have a conversation about not being invited back to houses. I am guessing based o your comment that you are dissatisfied by your rush experience. If you did not receive a bid, I recommend you checking out COB as an option. I think it is a great way to get into a house with significantly less pressure. If you did end up in a house, I hope you give it a try for a couple of weeks and try to make the best of it. Worse comes to worse, you drop and rerush. I hope you realize that it will all be ok because regardless of what house you end up in house or if you are non Greek, that does not have to completely define your college experience. You do not have to be in a sorority to socially survive at Vanderbilt. I know that things may seem turbulent right now with friends doing things with different houses, but it will honestly all work out. Those friends might stick by you or you might have to branch out and make new friends. But what underlies all of this, is you having a good attitude. If you are still having a difficult time processing rush, your Gamma Chi and the PCC are resources you can utilize. Hope this helps.