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Poster Name:
JA

Poster Message:
Obviously everyone wants to get into the most popular house they can, but it is important to remember that no matter how pretty or rich or well-connected the girls of some houses are, if you you don't fit in with them as a person, you will not be happy there. Getting into a top-tier house may be super satisfying on bid day and make you feel all proud and popular, but if you don't really fit there, you're not going to enjoy your 3 and a half years there. You may be someone that fits best with the girls in some of the "bottom-tier" houses. HOWEVER, if you are someone who cares about the tiers and perception very deeply, being in the lower-tier houses may not be feasible for you either. As someone in one of the three "alphas" there are quite a few girls who struggle with being in a "lower-tier" house. They may fit wonderfully and find great friends, and for most that is what makes their experience special and the rest stops mattering. But if you do care about that stuff deeply, remember to take that into account. If you won't be able to let that stuff go and stop worrying about that perception and enjoy your time in the chapter (which is what happens 99% of the time) you may be happier not in a house at all.