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The rounds do matter. Sororities make preliminary lists of PNMs that sisters know and like, but that doesn't mean they'll get everybody on their list. So if girl A is at the top of theta and kappa's lists and ranks kappa first during pref, she'll get a bid to kappa and theta will bump somebody from lower on their list up. Basically it's a dynamic process based on "mutual selection" (hated that term when I went through rush) and your behavior during the rounds can change sororities' perceptions of you, so lists aren't definitive. However, prior connections are very important, and obviously close friendships are more important than single conversations. But if you make a positive and lasting impression during a single conversation with an active member they may submit your name as a "rush crush." As far as roommates and friends go, it really just depends on the situation and the girl. Sorry that's vague but there's not really any specific policy for this or anything.