what's allowed

Sorry but who the hell visits a college campus to sit in a bed room all night. You are suppose to show pnms a good time so they want to join. However if you wanna keep ur pnms cooped up all night like your babysitting them be my guest, probably isn't gonna help in your favor though.

My guess is you are a pi phi saying this. Sororities are vying for top rushees. They are not going to break rules even if it is boring. Going into bars is not necessarily the most upstanding activity you can show your PNM . Granted, I like bars but we are talking about high school seniors. They are deemed vulnerable and you could face a lot of trouble if you aren't discreet with them. Learn some discipline, with yourself and the PNM. You will garner a better reputation and will rush really top girls.

I am not an independent I clearly said they couldn't go into frat houses but could go to house parties or apartments parties which are not frat parties. Literally the only thing they cannot do is go to frats. How was that not clear? I still plan on taking my pnms out and having a good time regardless. That doesn't mean I'm taking them to a frat house. I want to them to see how fun Starkville can be and for them to have a good time. That's why girl come to college towns. Keeping girls cooped up in a dorm all night sucks... They aren't children and that isn't fun for anyone

You got that right . Why be a closet drinker? Everyone can tell when you're drunk. If the girl you're talking about, because it sounds like someone I know, only knew how bad we made fun of her for trying so hard to keep her drinking habits undercover, she would either go into hiding out of embarrassment or try to become a chill person that can laugh at herself.

Damn that's the entire reason to go to frat houses is to meet guys. If a college girl can't keep her man and he wants me , I guess she's not mature enough to keep him happy.

Girls who want a successful rush don't go to frat parties to meet guys. You go to meet other sorority girls. Second you are basically blaiming a guy cheating on the girl. Good old fashion victim blaming. If a guy is unhappy he should be mature enough to leave the relationship. Lots of times guys don't even cheat because they are not happy, they cheat just simply because they can. Also regardless if a guy is flirting with you, though it does make him look bad it makes you look just as bad. Unless you want to be cut and have a horrible rush then I suggest you dont. Also you can't even get into frats anyways so sorry bout it.

If a frat guy finds out a high schooler is at the party they have no choice but to kick you guys out also sorority girls are forbidden to speak to any pnms at frats parties so it's kind of pointless to go in my perspective. If your 18 I would go to ricks which is a bar instead.

18, and the rules have been like this for awhile but they are just now enforcing it. It's a liability thing. You can thank the Starkville academy junior who got too drunk at a frat party and had to get her stomach pumped. The frat got in huge trouble and ever sense then frats had to make sure everyone going in was a college student atleast 18 years of age.