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hs girls and their demeanor

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You are hear to be rushed on college football weekends. Know you are being judged and act accordingly.
1. All groups are looking at you at the games, on frat row, on IG,on SC, and in the dorms. Act accordingly.
2. You need to dress like you are a senior. Do not let your mid-drift show. Check for deodorant stains. Wear shoes you can walk in. Fix your hair. Going against the dress code for your age is rush suicide. Especially when you are a picture poster. The upper class girls will judge you by your modesty. If you have none, it shows you don't care.
3. Do not go down frat row if you are a junior or lower. You look 16, 15, or 14. You will be escorted out of any frat house you are in. They will risk being on probation with you around so, no offense, but stay away. You are asking for sorority suicide if you can't understand this. None of the upperclassmen are impressed with this behavior. You may want to go to 11th grade English and brag about being in the Kappa Sig house but you are looking foolish!
4. Good or bad, the upperclass girls are discussing you in group text messages. Get over it! It's the world we live in. No need for anger. Give them good things to talk about! Turn your life around and IG about it! Use this as a positive.
5. When you come to game days, don't sit around scowling. Smile! Enjoy the atmosphere! I saw some glib faces Saturday!
6. You are not owed anything! You have to earn your way! Just because you want _________ sorority doesn't mean will get it.

Posted By: Rush chair
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I used all of my characters! Sorry! I want to help you! So, let me finish!
7. If you hear that you are being discussed by a group, don't freak out and discuss it hear! Turn it into a positive. Delete bad pictures, post volunteer pictures, and show you sweet side! You are about to leave HS so don't worry about your image there!
8. Do not walk around with a cup on frat row. You look like you are drinking and you will be judged. Just chill! You don't have to drink all the time and you don't want that reputation.
9. Stay on campus as much as possible. You need to let the upperclassmen know your pretty face. Staying off campus looks bad and shows you aren't interested in getting to know everyone.
10. If your sister is in-house greek, you will be cut during rush. Still get recommendations for every sorority. It looks classy!
I hope I helped! These are observations from rushing on the other side. Also, I stumbled in rush a little. These are the things no one told me!

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You sound like a phi mu. In my sorority we don't talk about girls in our group message unless it's nice and positive things like saying how fun and how much we loved a girl or how sweet a girl was. We also don't creepy stalk pnms on social media unless we actually have met the girl. I remember before rush probably 50 phi mus followed me and it was a big turn off and made me feel super weird/uncomfortable.

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Your opening statement here says " You sound like a phi mu". Obviously you brought this group into this thread. Therefore, it is safe to say you must have a vendetta against phi mu for whatever reason. Why would you bring them into this? None of the members of phi mu wrote this they did not bring themselves into it. And yes, I am a KD. My best friend is a phi mu. She read this and we both agree you sound like a bitter, mean school girl. Let me say we are both sorry if you had some kind of bad experience during rush. Many Greek women love KD and phi mu. When you say none of your friends liked phi mu that is fine for your small group. Obviously, 96 women did like phi mu so do not speak for the entire freshmen class of Greek women. Can you please forgive any perceived wrongdoings ANY Greek woman did towards you? I would hate to think I couldn't at least try to rectify your grievances toward any group. It's just wrong to generalize an entire group due to your experience. What was not a fit for you is a fantastic fit for 96 others. Thanks!

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You have no idea what is done before rush since you have not done the other side of rush. Don't talk about things you know nothing about. ALL sororities look at social media postings. A group would never take a girl that posts suggestive pictures or captions. That would be embarrassing! It is a practice all groups do. To call out phi mu or any other group by name shows how tacky YOU are.

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Chi o and kd. Sorry for autocorrect.

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I just saw this. It flattered me when several sororities followed me on Instagram. I didn't take it as stalking. It made me feel special. It was quite a few groups from several sororities that "group" followed me. I felt very welcomed by it.

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by: Hm   

Well I personally wouldnt. I've seen what some of the girls have said about pnms and its typically not nice. They are just following you to judge you. I had girls from chi o and KD and Dg all follow me but it was after I stayed with them and hung out with them and they introduced me to all their friends. That's then normal and correct way to do things. Mass following of girls you don't even know is weird. I talked to lots of girls during rush about if the same waa happening to them and they all felt similar. That felt they were being judged and watched and talked about... which is not what you should want pnms to think. It's comes across and gossipy and mean girl like. I know it turned lots of girls off from phi mu.

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Phi mu met quota and cross rushed with the other top groups. I'm not sure who you spoke to but all of my friends thought it was friendly and sweet. Most people like to gain followers. If you gave nothing bad on social media, then what does it matter if they follow you?

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by: Unnnnn   

Go away phi mu. No one I spoke to during rush picked phi mu over the top houses.

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by: Congrats   

Every house met quota except ADPI and ADPI could've but they choose quality over quantity. Meeting quota isn't anything to brag about.

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I know so many girls who ended up in ADPi who preffed another sorority. ADPi not meeting quota was less of their choice than people like to make it seem

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Whoever this very rude and mean person @unnnnnnnn is, please stop speaking for all of the Greek women at this university. This post was written to advise young women, not stir up some hate filled posts. I am a KD and I have great friends in phi mu. I am weary of you bashing them for no reason except that you say they are mean. What do you call what you are doing? You sound like someone who is bitter. Before you tell me I am in some other sorority and am deflecting (lol), think to yourself, am I encouraging people or am I stirring up trouble? Does this make me a better person or am I full of revenge towards a certain group?
I like phi mu. I preff'd phi mu. My roommate is a phi mu. Phi mu does so much to help our community. Why don't you think positively instead of negatively?

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by: Ha   

Okay phi mu

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by: @well @look   

Phi mu threw you guys under the bus earlier on this post saying you guys (KD) bash pnms. Not sure why ur defending phi mu when they clearly wouldn't do the same for you. Again means girls of the row.

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by: Ok   

Mean bitter women. I'm thinking these responders are some mothers who are pissed their daughters were cut from kd, phi mu, chi o or any of them. Lord, moms! Give it a break!

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by: Msu   

Not really.... the only house actually being bashed on here is phi mu and most girls could care less about getting cut from them. KD and CHI O were brought into this because an angry phi mu's only defense was to tear other houses down along with them. Pathetic in my opinion.

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Like I said, you sound like the bitter one. No phi mu came on here bashing anyone. You said that "this sounds like a phi mu". Of course one of them took up for themselves, just like you did. You are pathetic because you will not let this die! Sorry your daughter was cut. It happens. Now please deal with this privately.

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by: Um   

Again OKAY phi mu. I'm not a mom and it really doesn't make sense as to what would make you think that? I just find it rude how fake and catty phi mus can be to pnms. I was never interested in phi mu and cut them several times during rush. Their song on day 1 was really weird too. Not upbeat and fun like the others, just stood behind our chairs and quietly sang a song no one could understand. Not a good first impression.

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Bitter again. Hahaha. I feel bad for you. And, as you stress that you're not a mom, I am not a phi mu. I just wish you'd stop picking on them. You keep bringing them up, not any other person. You are a poison!

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by: Kay   

Because I have given you zero reason to think that? Lol lots of girls don't like phi mu, that doesn't mean they have to be a mom. And the fact you are listing ur affiliation is like really embarssing if you actually are a KD. Stop making others house look bad by pretending to be a different affiliation phi mu!

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I agree. Stop bringing phi mu into this when clearly you or someone brought them in saying "this sounds like a phi mu". You are a bully. Maybe the other poster thinks you are a mother that gets upset when their daughter didn't win something. That's why you keep on talking bad about a group of girls. I'm not sure but you clearly have a vendetta out for phi mu. But if one of them defends themselves you become irate. I get the mother comparison. And I'm not a phi mu either. I was however, in the library studying with a couple of them and read this stupid page. Your opinion couldn't be more skewed of phi mu or any other group here at state. You need to reevaluate your judgement. Ok...now I'm going to bed.

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you cut phi mu "several times" ?hahaha!
I on the other hand cut chi o after skit.
Does that mean I hate on them? certainly not. I love the girls from my high school that chose chi o or kd. I personally fit in somewhere else! We are all still friends and have pics with our half signs! Aren't you a bully's bell or senator or dancer or alumnae delegate or road runner or SOMETHING?!?! If so you would KNOW we really are all alike! Join something, get involved, you'll see! Try being sweet and broaden your horizon!

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