conv during rush

Okay first take some deep breaths. You are definitely over thinking this and you need to get out of your head...and off of this site. To answer your question, there are girls in every house that are shy or introverted and just not great at rushing and there are girls in every house that are so outgoing and easy to talk to. Everyone will have a different experience regardless of "tiers" which is why it's so important to go based off of YOU and what YOU think, not anyone else. Short answer, of course not. No sorority wants the PNM to feel uncomfortable in our homes. You're a guest and we want you to like us just as much you want us to like you. If you get a dud of a conversation it's just a girl out of her comfort zone, and probably of soph that hasn't rushed before. On the flip side, girls every year are shocked when they are cut from houses where they had great conversation. In those cases know you were a girl someone fought over because it was going well, but cuts had to be made and you were clearly liked based on the time we spent with you.

I wish I could have known by the conversations I had during rush which houses liked me and which ones didn't. I would have ranked them differently had I known I would be dropped by the "top 4" houses after Day 2.
I think actives should be nice to pnms, but if they know the pnm doesn't have a good chance of going all the way they shouldn't be selling their sorority as hard. Don't be fooled PNMs!