how hard is it to get a bid?

^^^^ not true.


Show your personality. If you're goofy and like old war documentaries talk about that. It you like knitting talk about it. If you like hanging out with your mom say so. We actually want to know you. "Be yourself" sounds fake but seriously. You're looking for a sorority to join but for us, we're look at girls who could potentially be our sisters, even our littles. We want to know your personality even if it's not "miss popularity". I was NEVER popular. In fact I was kinda weird and in speech and debate and super into science and I'm in a top tier with prom queens I never would imagine myself interacting with, much less bonding with. So much of sisterhood is being in pajamas and meeting at the house looking a hot mess ordering Chinese and pizza and watching movies on Fridays if you don't feel like going out. There will be girls doing that every weekend. Don't overthink it. And don't just Try to be someone overly peppy to impress us. If you are more relaxed and have real conversations I promise we'll actually remember you. Because instead of one of the 100s of fake girls we spoke to about meaningless stuff we'll go "oh yeah that girl was cool like I could see myself hanging out with her. Don't cut her".