struggling with dorm friends

This was something that happened to me as I lived on a floor as one of the only sorority girls and then a few frisk were Tri delta's who just hung out with each other. A lot of the girls had dropped from recruitment and bonded over hating the recruitment process and led to them being really great friends, where as I was a girl in a sorority and was fine with the process because I found a home. I was always nice but they were by inclusive because I was different. I made a lot of friends in my sorority and through organizations and it was just fine. My roommate was a friend from high school and didn't even want to be Greek and we were able to stay friends. I was always nice to the girls on my floor but stopped investing too much time in being their friend and instead invested more time in the relationships with women that I knew wanted to be my friend.
My advice to you is just to continue being nice and use opportunities you can but don't stress about it and just further the friendships you have in your chapter!

Maybe they're treating you like a basic sorority girl because you're acting like one. Is all you want to talk about Greek life or parties or something of the like that Greeks enjoy doing? Do you have your bid day welcome sign with your name on it plastered on the outside of your door? Is your entire room decorated in monograms and sorority letters? Do you wear your letters at least 3 times a week? Then yes. You're probably being basic. Not saying you're wrong by any means to be doing that, it's fun, I did it too. but you are basic and you probably act basic too and don't realize it. I mean after all, you are posting on this website of all places for advice so you are probably pretty basic. I learned if you want to make friends that aren't Greek, you need to understand that they don't care about anything Greek at all. At. All. So don't talk about it.