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by: Stupid pnms

Just FYI any pmn posting on that facebook page for class of 2019 and saying what sorority they want to be in consider yourself black balled from a chance at any other sorority. The worst possible thing you can do is opently talk about what sorority you want to be in before rush. And news flash current sorority members are ON that page looking at girls planning to rush and stalking the crap out of them. So if you said you wanted to rush a certain house on that page I suggest you delete it. You shouldn't be talking about ANY houses on that page if you want even a chance at the other ones. This should just be common knowledge, I didn't think any pnm would actually be that stupid to post what house they want to be in.

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#1  by: ???   
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"Who's thinking about pledging…" I'm keeping my comment up there because I'm thinking about. haven't decided but it's always an option. Shouldn't judge me for that. It's not like every girl in your house never considered another sorority during recruitment.

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by: YesApr 21, 2015 6:52:46 PM

yes plz keep it up there, one less girl I need to complete with.

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by: Good luck Apr 21, 2015 6:57:19 PM

You should be thinking about all the houses. And saying you want a specific sorority is bad and makes you look bad. You havnt gone through rush, you know nothing about the girls in the house or if you like them so that comment just makes you look stupid and shallow. Secon, In order to "pledge" you need to get a bid and you seem fairly confident you'll get a bid but with that attitude you're gonna be lucky you get any house and after that comment you probably won't. Tell me how ur recruitment goes, you've already been black listed from my house!

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by: LolApr 21, 2015 8:20:18 PM

I would delete your comment, or the poster should just delete her post. Realize you made a mistake and stop acting dumb. The only thing that post is doing is hurting you before rush. Seeing as you are a pnm (who just proved they know they know zip about rush) and I am an active sorority member who is deciding if you will be in my house or not, I would delete it.

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by: UmmmmmmmmApr 21, 2015 8:24:10 PM

We have every right to judge you. You posting about what sorority you like the best all over facebook is just plain rude to all other sororities, it also makes you look arrogant. How do you even know you like that house when you havnt even gone through rush. And we all find it super funny you guys are just assuming you are getting a bid.

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#2  by: chill   
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Chill! people are allowed to be interested in houses. I went in with having a few i already liked, didn't mean i thought i was getting a bid or thought i would for sure be in one of those houses. The reality of it is though if you know anything about our greeklife it is impossible not going in without some sort of opinion.

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by: ActiveApr 21, 2015 8:00:55 PM

No the poster is right. You girls should come into rush with your best food forward and most importantly an open mind. Doing this is only going to hurt these girls. You don't want all the houses knowing your names for the WRONG reasons. When people tell you to watch what you say while you're still in highschool you should listen, being cut from several sororities is NOT fun.

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by: HmApr 21, 2015 8:28:50 PM

You can have an opinion but that doesn't mean you should post it up all over facebook, especially on a page where sorority girls are always lurking. I just think these girls are being stupid. Every body knows you just simply don't talk about houses like that it. It's rude and is making them look bad.

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#3  by: What   
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Name of the page?

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by: HuhApr 21, 2015 7:52:58 PM

What's your question? Lol

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by: MhzbApr 21, 2015 8:05:04 PM

Mizzou class of 2019

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by: WhatApr 21, 2015 8:07:51 PM

What is the name of the Facebook page?

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#4  by: Ha   
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What gets me is these girls just assume they Can get into chi o. Lol arrogant much?

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#5  by: Chio   
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I'm a chi O and even I think these girls are being stupid. It's like the number one rule of rush is you DO NOT openly talk about houses like that. I am amazed this is even being discussed right now, this should be common knowledge for anyone planning to rush.

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#6  by: Chairmen   
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First of all you don't pledge a sorority untill you get a bid. You go through rush, like helloooo this isn't a frat ladies. There is no pledging before receiving a bid and in order to get a bid the house actually has to like you. What makes you sooo sure we're going to like you? Also Before rush you know literally nothing about the girls inside the house and if you actually click with them or like them, so how do you even know this is the house you want?? You don't. And you just made an awful decision because you are likely going to be cut from houses you really do like and think you click with. Maybe you should research a thing or two about rush but you just made a major mistake.

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#7  by: PNM   
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I am a pnm and I wasn't one of the girls that said that because I'm keeping An open mind and I agree it wasn't good to say but in my opinion you guys are being a little harsh. None of us know what Rush is like or what is rush etiquette. I know do from reading all of this, but I doubt any of these girls meant anything by it and I honestly would be so scared to make Any little mistake if this what it's a like. I'm so excited for recruitment but please remember most of us know nothing!

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by: True Apr 21, 2015 8:36:55 PM

But now they know and should probably figure out a way to delete the entire post or their comment.

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by: PNMApr 21, 2015 8:47:55 PM

That is if this person even sees all of this! And I know everyone thinks we think we can get into any house, maybe some incoming freshmen are that way but I'm freaking out about getting into any house let alone the ones I love at the end of the week!!!

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by: :/Apr 21, 2015 8:48:28 PM

It just saddens me these ladies are getting their heart set on an extremely selective and highly competitive house before they even go through rush. This is just going to lead to disappointments and heartbreak. You should never have ur heart set on any house before rush because nothing is for sure. Also it saddens me because they are selling other houses short, you havnt rushed yet you know what house you want ? That's just not logical. You girls better hope you have what it takes to be a chi o because ur other options are not looking promising.

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by: agreed!Apr 21, 2015 8:56:01 PM

I'm right there with you! I was planning on rushing my freshmen year and after seeing all of these girls in sororities call us stupid multiple times and arrogant I might be re-thinking my decision to rush...

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by: @agreed!Apr 21, 2015 9:07:49 PM

feel free not to rush then! That just means one less girl for us to sort through, and trust me There are PLENTY of girls who will hapily take your spot. Mizzou rush is competitive just like at any sec school. If you can't take the heat stay out of the kitchen.

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#8  by: yes   
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I'm in a top tier house and we take this sort of thing very seriously. You have no idea what it takes to get into our house. We are extremely selective. And any incoming freshman who is so presumptuous to think they have what it takes to join our sorority and posts it is asking to be a one-party wonder. We choose you, you don't choose us. What about that do you not understand?

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#9  by: Post    
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Mizzou class of 2019 is the page name. There is one girl asking who is thinking about pledging chiO and a bunch of pnms saying "me!". Then there is another post asking what sororities everyone is interested and girls listing what sororties they want in. These girls are in for a shock when they realize rush is very little in their control. Sororties have almost all the power and they should just be happy with what they get. Most would be lucky if chi o even asked them back for round two.

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#10  by: Holy cow   
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I know it's really competitive but you guys are acting like you're God. No pnm wants to be sisters with someone who thinks you need worship the ground they walk on. Trust me I'm still excited and I know I'm not guaranteed a bid but it's important to me to stick up for what I believe and even though there's a lot I know I will love about being greek right now this thinking you're better than everyone is not one of those things

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by: HmApr 21, 2015 9:52:34 PM

And no one wants to be a sister who thinks they are intitled to a certain house or feels they are too good for other houses. If you don't like the way things are, save your self the trouble and do not rush

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by: TruthApr 21, 2015 10:33:45 PM

Not everyone here thinks that they are better than everyone else but some houses do. The idea is constantly reinforced by the "tier" system everyone tries to group the houses into and by the ridiculous rankings on this site. Chi O is a great house but so are the rest of the houses here. Most girls think they want to be a Chi O because of they have the newest and nicest house which has increased their popularity in the last few years. They really aren't any different or better than anyone else.

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by: That's not what I meanApr 21, 2015 10:39:45 PM

Thank you for saying that! hearing the "we chose you, you don't choose us. what part of that don't you understand" is extremely harsh. I don't want to be in a house that thinks I owe them everything and I'm the luckiest person in the world just to step foot in their house during rush week. I can see from all of these comments that this tier system is just made by the insecure, self-absorbed people that need to make themselves feel better therefore they are the ones at the top and it should be the last thing i consider while going through rush week.

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by: OkayApr 21, 2015 10:40:01 PM

All you PMNs have to do is just not talk about other houses in places where active sorority girls may see it or hear it. So defiantly not on any social network. It looks bad and is rude. Just Don't do it. If you listen to this advice you will do fine during rush. End of story. If you choose not to listen to this advice, then that is your own fault and you are only hurting yourself. Best of luck ladies

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by: KayApr 21, 2015 11:00:59 PM

The truth hurts. Sorry if you don't like it but that's just how things are. You have little power during rush and that's just how it is. Don't like it? Don't rush. And you should consider yourself extremely lucky to get a bid to any house, plenty of girls get dropped and would do anything for your bid.

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