hipster house

you sound just like a pi phi

Perfect for alpha phi

If you have good grades (and judging by the way you write, you're pretty smart), PiPhi is the place for you. They are full of girls who are a little edgy and think outside the box. More hipster than rah rah. Just beware. Being a legacy may be a slam-dunk in some houses, but it's no guarantee that you will get into PiPhi. Keep an open mind. But I really can't see you as an Alpha Phi.

no one can make the judgement that any certain house is the place for you. all houses are so different and you will not get a feel for it until you rush. As long as you have good grades, you're fine. But after being through rush on both sides the most valuable piece of advice I can give you is that even if you're more shy, quiet, and not super outgoing (rah-rah) you still MUST to some extent act that way during rush otherwise you will just become another girl out of the hundreds that doesn't talk and we drop you for being awkward. (Im in a top house).. Be outgoing, talk about yourself, be enthusiastic about the process and that's how you will stand out. Once you get in a chapter, (contd)

Also don't rule out Alpha Phi. I have a lot of friends in that house and they are a very diverse chapter -- honestly, EVERY house is going to have a niche that you can fit into when you have chapter totals being over 200+ women in each house. Just go in with a positive attitude and give it a shot -- I wasn't 100% greek life was for me either, and I ended up in the best fit possible for me with friends I don't know where I would be without.

Every house has something to offer and chances are you will find good friends anywhere and everywhere. The thing about the rah-rah sorority girl cheerleader stereotype is just that. Even the rah-rah girls have some substance once you get to know them. We all know the stereotype, but few of us actually fit it.

My friend is a full blown hipster and she's in Delta. Avoid Chi-O, Theta and ADPi because they are built on the "rah rah" spirit you claim not to have. Pi Phi or Alpha Phi sound more your speed, which is perfect because you're a legacy to both.

I would avoid GPhi, Delta and Kappa. Lots of superficiality in those houses. Sounds like you have a bit more to offer than those houses would appreciate. Besides, I've never seen a hipster fake bake or bleach their hair, so that should rule out the first two automatically. And Kappa seems to like girls who don't make waves and just go along with the program. Not a lot of individuality there IMHO.

As you go through rush you might be surprised at where you feel most comfortable and where you wind up. But off the top of my head I think PiPhi or ChiO might be a good fit. Both are great houses with members who appreciate individuality. Good luck to you.

From what I've read so far and many reasons stated above, you definitely sound like a PiPhi or an Alpha Phi (which is perfect for you).. Both are really good houses that are normal, chill girls that don't have a lot of drama and focus on individuality. No matter where you end up, you'll find it's where you're meant to be!