how do i bring this up..?

The rudeness isn't appreciated, but thanks anyway. Obviously I'm not involved in Greek life and I'm just asking a question to clarify something I'm unsure about. You don't have to insult my intelligence, and I sincerely hope you don't treat people like that in real life if they do something as simple as ask about something they're unsure about. But you know what, good for you! It's so EDGY and GUTSY to hide behind your keyboard and insult someone anonymously over the internet! Wow! You get a gold star! Please learn to more kind towards people.

Haha I think your first mistake was thinking gah you would get a serious insightful answer on a GOSSIP SITE. Wow, just wow.

"Dumb GDI"? Seriously? You know nothing about me or my intelligence, and you'd probably be eating your words if you did. I see threads on here all the time where people ask questions and get legitimate answers rather than rudeness. I'm not asking for some sort of deep or "insightful" answer but, yes, it would be nice to get taken seriously rather than be called "stupid" and "dumb" for just asking a question. I feel sorry for you! It's pretty pathetic that you have to tear down others and bash on non-Greeks to feel better about yourself. I hope you can learn to be more tolerant of other people, and I hope you have a good day!