which house?

Zeta

Think for yourself. "Best" can only be defined by what is best for you. Please do not rely on this site to guide your decision - or even to get anyone else's opinion.They are not going to live your life. Each of these three has advantages depending on the girl.

Who would y'all pick if it came down to tri sig and phi mu

Zeta. Hands down.

Make your own decision. If you ask 10 different people you'll get ten different answers. If you have a choice, go with the place you can be yourself, regardless of what the campus perception of them is (or what other people tell you it is). Of course, anyone can type anything in here because it is totally anonymous. Don't let your choice be made by some random person who has no investment in your life (or, actually, even people close to you). It's your life, your sisterhood. Nobody else's. That's true regardless of the house and it's perceived/arguable "tier."

Zeta, then Sigma

Sorry, Phi Mu. Nicest girls around next to KD. Remember, you'll be living with these girls for year. Don't know many SSS, they're OK but Phi Mu has a great sisterhood. Just sayin'

I think Sigma is really starting to establish themselves at Mizzou. It hasn't been easy for any sorority colonizing here as not everyone has been kind. I personally think Zeta has too many sisterhood issues and Phi Mu can't get out of their own way. I think if it were my choice I would go Sigma first, Phi Mu then Zeta. However everyone should make up their own mind and you can find your place in any house here.

I would love to hear about these so called sisterhood issues???

I would not go Sigma. At least with Phi Mu or Zeta, you are becoming a member of a sorority with very strong nationals. Sorority membership isn't just four years and I would want to be a member of a house with strong nationals so that once I'm an alum there are more opportunities to involve myself.