advice for pnms

Dearest PNMs
Do not decide which house you want to be in even before recruitment, because once you go through recruitment and actually meet the wonderful ladies in every house everything that you thought you knew before coming in will be different. I came into recruitment thinking I knew exactly which house I wanted and was going to be in. I was cut from that house after the 3rd day and honestly didn't connect well with the girls I talked to. Yes to some extent stereotypes can stick, but there are about 250 girls in each house and not all of them will be the same. Go in with an open mind rather than thinking there's a secret tier ranking and you have to be in the top. I do not fit my house's stereotype at all, but I love the girls in it. Going through recruitment is about finding the house that fits YOU. Who cares about what other people think about it, this is about YOU and finding women to bond with for the best years of your life.

TL;DR Going through recruitment with an open mind is the best thing you can do.