rushing a frat

Dont worry on trying to get in one of the "top tier" houses. Find the one that fits your personality the best if you want to get the most out of your college experience. And if your trying to rush quit using the word "frat", its called a "fraternity". Saying you're looking for a "top tier frat" makes you come off as a douchey tryhard and no respectable house will want you if thats how they perceive you to be/

As a girl, I always laugh at any fellow sorority girl who worries about what house a guy is in over what sort of man he is. Now granted, each house has it's type of guy they recruit for the most part. Beta takes a lot of legacies, Lambda has sporty guy, AgRho has their share of hicks. But the thing about fraternities is that you really need to like the guys you're pledging with. These are the guys who are gonna have your back during competition season when the sorority you're paired with is going crazy. These are the guys you're pledging with.

Check out the houses you think you'd fit in best with and roll with that.

As for being out of state with no connections, it's still worth a shot. If you're a chill dude, you're a chill dude and if they like you, you're in.