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parties after bid day

by: pnm

so tomorrow i’ll be bidding a sorority but i know there will be parties throughout the first week of school. i was invited to a frat darty on sunday but idk if i can go. how does that work? ik the sororities have rules about parties as a pledge. can i go to the darty? who would i ask

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#1  by: Frfr   
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Omg yes girl. I love a good time but I’m not trying to get in trouble or kicked out. I had a bit of a wild streak jr-sr year of high school, but I’m out of state and always kept my social media clean bc all my family follows me, so my former reputation didn’t count against me. I’m probably going to get a bid from a house that’s apparently known to have sweet, good girls and I don’t wanna be that wild girl ya know? If everyone else goes out I’m going to but tbh really nervous. And when it’s okay to party what are the things that can get you in trouble if someone in your sorority sees? I’m not trying to get blindsided and get in trouble for stuff I didn’t know I shouldn’t do.

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by: PHAAug 18, 2023 3:54:44 PM

Basics: No drinking in your sorority merch ("your letters"). No posting pictures of it on social media if you are under 21 or tagging your location as a bar or frat house - (use the the "greek town" location instead). Pictures at parties are fine just don't include drinks. Don't get filmed doing something illegal or embarrassing while in your sorority merch or talking about your sorority. No drinking in the sorority house. No drinking during philanthropy events.

Different chapters may be stricter, but those are the basic rules.

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#2  by: PHA   
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PHA rules state no drinking for the entirety of recruitment and that continues through ALL DAY on bid day. The day after bid day is fair game unless you are explicitly told by your sorority not to do that.. but I've never heard of that.

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by: PHAAug 18, 2023 3:57:52 PM

Oh and to answer your last question - ask your bid day buddy:)

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