This is when the heartbreak happens

As we get down to the wire, chances are recruitment hasn't gone perfectly for you. It rarely goes perfectly and it's often a wake-up call that you are competing with a large amount of outstanding girls. So now you have just one decision to make. That decision is "do you want to be part of Greek life?" If you do, open your mind to the possibilities, even if on the last day you are not invited back to a house that was your favorite at the beginning of the process. Every house has something to offer. If you look around on the last day and speak with women you can imagine as your friends, then go for it. It might be the first time you actually think 100% for herself. Time to trust your instincts. There is a place for you and any house can be a good fit if you let it.