please stop talking negatively about my house
by: I'm a zetaThis website has become the center of discussion lately at the zeta house. We were told to stop posting on here after things started to get out of hand. I just want to apologize for any behavior that has been offensive to the other ladies of greek town. We are not all bad! We still don't know if it even is a member of our house that is causing all this drama, so please don't think we're all like her! I'm sorry if any members of zeta have hurt you in the past, I think we have improved so much and maybe there was a member or two that felt like they needed greek towns approval and wanted to move up in the ranks. Win we placed in homecoming, I did hear some girls in my house start talking about how we should be taken more seriously. I'm sorry if one of our members thought it was a good idea to "take down KD" to jump them in the ranks. We never meant to hurt KD, we only wanted to be taken more seriously! One girl just took it too far. I think we all regret ever thinking that in order to move up, we would have to put another house down in bottom tier. KD was just an easy target because we thought it was crazy that this was one of the first times they didn't place! Anyways, I apologize to the houses that were caught in the fire. I truly hope that greektown doesn't all hate us. And I really hope whoever the girl is from our chapter that keeps stirring the pot learns to forgive and let go. She is making all of us look really bad, and I promise not all zetas are like her!
#1by: help
I've been following a few of these threads and I'm curious about something. Do you know which girl in the zeta house is writing these? I mean, you said you didn't but is there a way you can find out? I don't want anyone to take this the wrong way but I think there is an explanation to why this girl may be acting the way she is. Someone mentioned it before in a joking manner but I think they may actually be right. I'm a psychology major and your sister fits the definition of having a disruptive behavioral disorder. Operational Defiant Disorder = "Persistent, negative, defiant and hostile attitude towards others, likes to argue, acts spitefully or vindictively towards others, and blames others for mistakes." If there is some way to identify the member of zeta who started and is keeping the drama going, I think you seriously need to approach her with this. She can get help for this and be able to function better in life. Don't call her out on it though, just try to pull her aside one day and express your concern. You sound like a good sister, and hopefully she will trust you enough to seek help. or offer to go with her for support. I know she will probably reading this too so maybe she will start to realize there may be something really going on with her head and seek the help on her own. You can get better! You just need to be open to the idea of therapy! and mizzou offers a ton of counseling programs too!
Commentby: Well
There is no way to identify the specific Zeta, or even if the one behind this IS a Zeta. And actually, it's probably multiple people that add fuel to the fire and just egg each other on. I doubt they have an actual disorder, but rather they probably suffer from low self esteem. And yes, this also refers to everyone who obsesses over their hatred for Zeta.
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by: I think
I think most of us understand that this drama is being perpetuated by just one girl. I personally don't have any animosity towards Zeta, my roommate from freshman year went Zeta and she and I are still very good friends. I think things will die down after the holiday season but I know I appreciated this post and totally understand where you're coming from :)
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#2by: wow
Our little Zeta basher has been busy today, hasn't she? Just look at all of her multiple personalities that came to the party. Let's get a few things straight. 1) There is ONE Zetabasher and she is out of control. 2) She posts dozens of times a day, particularly when other show some support for Zeta, and MANY people do just that. 3) She is delusional. In the past 24 hours alone she has impersonated an Alpha Phi, a psych major, an apologetic Zeta and who knows what 4) When things die down she gets particularly busy. 5 has NO OTHER LIFE. In short, this IS her life. Her poor pathetic life. She doesn't go out, she doesn't have friends and she doesn't have any self-respect. In short we all know Zeta is a fine house. Mostly wonderful girls, some odd ones, JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER SORORITY AT MIZZOU. No one knows why she has targeted Zeta, but it is only helping Zeta to gain respect among the rest of us for keeping it classy.
by: Sad!
Oh sweetie, this is just making my heart break. A random poster actually diagnosed you with a disorder and you just keep at it. There is no zeta basher, you made up that persona in your head! And you just keep adding all these traits to a make believe character! Can't you see that isn't normal? You know what they say, only a crazy person doesn't know they're going crazy. They think they're completely logical. You're making my heart break, please take the time to take care of yourself! I really do hope you find the help you need. Find a loved one to help you through these troubled times! Please seek the help you need. Try to have a merry Christmas!
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by: Dear "wow"
You are wrong. There are many people bashing Zeta, mostly because all the bashing of other sororities by Zeta has stopped since this girl was called out. The thing people are saying is that there is one person causing all the trouble, and she is mentally ill. I believe it is you. I believe you have a lonely life, and blame your troubles on other sororities, especially KD and Phi Mu. I believe you are a Zeta, who was cut from KD and Phi Mu, the only sororities you had left on pref day. You most likely listed KD and Phi Mu above Zeta, and hate them for not taking you. When Zeta finally did well in HC, that triggered your rage. You are embarrassed by your house, and are desperately trying to make Zeta look better on a website. I am not the psych major from above, but I believe you need medical help, if not for a compulsive disorder, but for depression, at the very least. College is a hard transition, and may get homesick, or worse, think they made a bad choice of Universities. Finally, Do you realize that more than half of the girls who went through rush didn't get in? Count yourself lucky! Zeta is a great national sorority. Wear your letters proudly and work to make your house better from the inside, and please stay off this website. I don't care how PC this ISN'T, but I'm praying for you.
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by: to "dear wow"
You're just as delusional as the person you just described. That's quite the story you've come up with. There is no way to ever possibly come close to knowing that's true, so why waste your precious time and energy coming up with that story? You're just as pathetic as this so-called Zeta. Goodness. I highly doubt this "psych major" is qualified to diagnose anyone, considering you need a PhD in psychology to even be relevant enough to find a job in that field. I don't think a couple years of undergrad gives you that ability. I love psychology, and I'm getting a minor, but that's just as bad as a premed student trying to diagnose someone's illness. They only know a few things they've read in a textbook.
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by: oh god
shut up ^^ you sound so dumb hahah "i'm a psychology major" hahahaahha im dead
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