my favorite thing...
by: NottoohotMy favorite thing is when women on this site say insulting things about a sorority and always start out by saying: "I put Delta (or PiPhi or Theta or ADPi or Kappa) No. 3 on the last day of rush because the girls were superficial" or vacuous or fake or whatever. What they are really saying is that "I loved Delta (or PiPhi or Theta of ADPi or Kappa or whatever) so much that I wanted to go back every day of rush and ranked them high enough that I wound up there on the last day -- and then chose them No. 1 but I didn't get my first choice so now I have to say really mean and awful things about them to make myself feel better." Well, sorry you didn't get your first choice, Sweetie, but we see through your little act. You aren't kidding anyone.
#1 by: Nope.
I'll leave sorority names out of this but give you my example of why I placed a "top tier house" in my bottom three on the first round of cuts.
A girl I knew in high school was in this particular house and for the entire year before I came to Mizzou she would complain about how awful her sisters were to her, how fake they were, how mean they were. Nothing but awful complaints. Then I go through formal recruitment and not only do I find out that the girl I went to high school with is roommates with one of these awful girls, but I'm fed some lies about how they all love each other and get along so well when in reality I've heard nothing but catty drama from them. I didn't feel comfortable in that house and knew that, while I didn't want to be in a bottom tier house, I also didn't want to be in this certain top tier house. So my first round cuts were two bottom tier and one top tier. I ended up in my legacy house.
So no, it's not always as simple as jealousy. Please subdue your narcissism and realize that not every amazingly hot girl wants to be in a hot girl house. Some of them might feel more comfortable in a middle tier house centered around sisterhood. She might be a legacy to a bottom tier house and want to pledge them for that reason.
Comment#2 by: Huh?
So let me get this straight. A PNM should make up her mind about which house to choose (or not choose) based on the opinion of one girl who doesn't get along with people in her house because you can't possibly get to know what a house is like based on 5-6 minute conversations with existing members. But those same existing members were supposed to know that a girl is catty based on conversations of the same length? Which is it? Do these conversations reveal real personalities or not?
by: Yes!Sep 10, 2013 4:00:24 PM
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by: PersonalSep 9, 2013 9:35:02 AM
I'm in a similar boat as nope is and I'll also leave our names just so it doesn't start a fight. But the reason I dropped the top tier house I did on the first day was because when I went in there the only thing they wanted to talk about was going out and partying. I'm just not a party girl, I don't even drink. So I didn't know anything about greek life but all the girls in this house just wanted to talk about drinking so I put them in my bottom three and finally got cut from this before pref. I joined a middle tier house and I love my sisters. It's not jealousy, it just wasn't the place for me.
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