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so much hate on this website

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Seriously ladies, you are making our panhellenic association look like a bunch of shallow, hateful drama queens.

Shouldn't you be focused on enjoying your summer, instead of spewing hateful crap about the other houses and members of Mizzou's fine Greek system?

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But then there's that one Alpha Phi who has nothing better to do than rip all the houses that cut her.....

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could you not? feeding into whoever she is, whether she is an aphi, doesn't help the situation.

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There is a lot more bashing of other houses this year leading up to recruitment vs. last year.

Why does everyone feel they must criticize other houses to make themselves feel better about their own sorority?

Let's show each other a little more respect.

By: Truth
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I agree we should show more respect, but it's really only one nutjob who has a vendetta against Zeta who is stinking up this website. The rest of us know there's nothing wrong with ZTA.

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by: Seriously zeta?   

^and it's really only one but job from zeta who is tearing down aphi, am I right? #shutupzeta

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by: Miz    

The majority of us know that zeta is stirring the pot like they do every summer before recruitment. And as soon as someone starts wising up and throws shade at zeta, they can't handle it and they want everyone to play nice. That's great, I'm all for it, but zeta you have got to learn your lesson here. Don't be bullies. End of story.

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by: ?????   

You can't possibly know that. Why don't you tell your conspiracy theories to someone who cares? And to "Seriously zeta," "Truth" didn't say anything about Alpha Phi. I think you just outed yourself.

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The comment right above this blamed it on APhi lol

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Thank you for pointing the hatred out.

It has really bothered me for awhile that supposedly all of our sorority houses get along in person on the Mizzou campus - that we are one big happy Greek family - but secretly there are many girls who jump at the chance to bully each other's houses.

I would hope those who are constantly on this site bullying others would think twice about it. This is not the type of behavior we should expect of ourselves, much less celebrate by piling on.

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by: I agree   

So nicely put. And thanks for this^. I really think that most of us get along just fine and realize that it is in everybody's best interest to have a strong Greek system. This is an anonymous site, of course, so no one knows for sure who is posting anything. But I really think all the irrational hatred for Zeta is coming from just one disgruntled person -- and likely an alum (because of the way she talks/writes). She may have her reasons for lashing out and perhaps was cut by Zeta or a Zeta stole her boyfriend or whatever. The rest of us would never criticize and entire sorority, however, for something like that that happened in the past. Zeta is a great house. In fact, you can't go wrong with most of the sororities on this campus. So every time you read something negative about Zeta, consider the source. Those of us who have friends in Zeta know it is not full of drama queens or crazy btches. It's a sisterhood, and a good one at that. So it's time to move on.

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by: XYZ   

Great post. I too agree that this is most likely one very ticked off alumni who hates ZTA for maybe an incident that she personally had years ago. There are 300 women in that house, and that incident happened years ago. The sad thing is she comes on year after year and tries to shame 300 girls who have done absolutely nothing wrong. There are 15 great houses at Mizzou. They are all fantastic, or else they wouldn't be there... Zeta has tons of great qualities. Why would their own alums invest in a multi-million dollar house if there was something wrong over there?

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by: TBH   

There is definitely one person who has a hatred for them on another level but everyone on here thinks it's sad that they're trying to claim they're middle tier all of a sudden. Zeta has been bottom (top of bottom, but still bottom) since I went Greek and they've done nothing during that time to move up the ladder? A new house isn't enough if the girls who fill it are leftovers who couldn't get into a better house....

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by: Really?   

I guess you ^ don't get it, do you. As the person above said, whenever you come on here with your personal diatribe against Zeta, no one believes you. We are considering the source. So do us, and yourself, a favor and get over it. Or since that seems impossible for you, just post 100 times that Zeta Sucks and then get off this site once and for all. You are a sad, evil person and no one cares what you think.

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by: LOL   

Lol! Saying a bottom tier house is bottom tier is not evil! Check posts from last year and the year before, I'm not sure if you were from the last PC but Zeta truly has never been mid.... and that's ok! Just being honest not vindictive, that's why people are hating on y'all recently. When you're super vocal about something no one agrees with you're going to get some haters.

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My question is, when aphi was being bashed on constantly no one stuck up for them. But now that zeta is being bashed on, it's suddenly wrong? All I saw was zeta terrrorizing aphi to one-up them before recruitment. But now that aphi and others (oh yes there are several different posters) are fighting back to zetas negative behavior, zeta has become overly defensive. Zeta started this mess, the posts are in response to THEIR behavior. IMO, zeta needs to set a better example and apologize or just deal with the karma they've been given.

By: Who is the real bully?
by: You are   

There is no evidence at all that Zeta is overly defensive, nor that Zeta started this mess, nor that they are even on this website. "Their behavior?" What on earth are you talking about. And what exactly would they apologize for? You can complain about Zeta until you turn blue, but the reality is that YOU are the bully because you won't let it go. I am speaking out in support of Zeta because I don't want to see them, or any other fine house, being constantly ridiculed on this site. They are a great house and have done nothing to deserve that treatment. And as long as people like YOU continue to attack them, people like ME will continue to defend them. So do us all a favor and stop the bullying.

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by: If the shoe fits   

And I suppose by continuing to post responses it is helping your cause, right? Now that was the first post I myself have posted, but I've been following the threads and as an outsider I can easily tell what was really going on. Zeta saw aphi as an easy target to take down to jump the ranks and take their spot in mid tier. No one else has been boasting about zeta moving to mid tier until zeta unsuccessfully tried to pin aphi in bottom tier and rank themselves in mid tier. In real life off this site- No one thinks aphi is bottom tier. No one thinks zeta is mid tier except zeta. All I'm saying is that is sure looks like zeta was behind all the crap. Espcially now that zeta is getting defensive now that they're being called out. If zeta wasn't the culprit, why bother retailiating? Sure looks suspicious to me and I'm assuming quite a few others who have already been posting before me.

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by: Ah, no   

Give. It. A Rest. So sick of your Zeta hatred. It's not bottom tier no matter how many times in a day you insist it is. And I, too, am not a Zeta. Just someone who is defending Zeta because you never know when YOU will come after my house. Don't you have ANYTHING better to do with your time than bash Zeta?

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by: ^   

When did you join Greek life? Please search rankings over the past several years, Zeta has ALWAYS been ranked on SK and KDs level, top of bottom... literally always... was never even a debate. QUIT embarassing your sorority..

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by: Hardly   

You ^ are the only person who has made Greek Rank your life's passion. The rest of us could barely care. Congrats on having an entire spreadsheet devoted to all of the posts concerning Zeta in the past 30 years. As for me, I only care how Zeta is doing now, and that's all PNMs care about, too. It's a good house, def. middle tier, and no matter how many hundreds of times you post that it is bottom tier, NO ONE CARES BUT YOU. What about that do you not understand.

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I agree with the OP, Mizzou Greek life needs to stick together and cut the negativity towards other houses. I understand that there are sometimes reasons not to like other houses but we don't need to be rude and put it on the internet for everyone to see and potentially hurt someone's feelings or make someone angry. It's bad enough they're kicking off frats and putting them on probation and trying to exploit "hazing," it needs to be everyone in the greek community to stay strong together and show them we are not shallow and only care about looks, popularity, and parties. We all have philanthropies we raise insane amounts of money for, help Mizzou have one of the largest blood drives in the country, raise money for MS, as well of countless other things that should be celebrated!! It doesn't matter if a house is top tier or bottom, they all still take part in these amazing things and I bet there's at least 10 girls (and guys) in each chapter that everyone on this website would get along with. So stop with the continuous bashing of other chapters, I get we all have an opinion and want to express it but there's no need to be so hateful and horrible.

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